We understand how overwhelming the financial challenges of divorce can be. That’s why Mercer Advisors has Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® advisors who provide detailed guidance to help individuals navigate complex financial decisions during this major transition.
It’s possible you’ll have to make hard choices about your housing, children, or career. Additionally, you could be navigating new relationship dynamics with your former partner, friends, family members, and children. Our role is to provide guidance in these areas, tailored to your specific situation, to help you feel financially reassured, confident, and independent.
Ideally, your financial journey through divorce begins before the legal termination of your marriage when we can provide proper planning to help you avoid potential pitfalls. However, if you’re in the midst of a divorce or have already been through one, we can still help you achieve your personal financial objectives and desired outcomes.
As a start, this resource was created for you — a general guide for moving towards Economic Freedom™ when experiencing divorce. We’d be honored to be your partner through this financial journey and all the others your life may bring.
Benefits of a Financial Advisor
Being prepared
Divorce is widely recognized as one of life’s most stressful events. However, like any significant experience, it can be managed more smoothly and successfully with proper preparation. While it might seem unnecessary to consult with a financial advisor until after you’ve dealt with the legal aspects of divorce or gained financial independence, pre-divorce financial support can be crucial in helping you achieve your desired financial goals and outcomes — while also reducing your workload, worry, and potential risks.
Having a comprehensive strategy
At any stage in the divorce process, Mercer Advisors can collaborate with you to create your personal financial strategy and put it into action. We offer a specific approach and process that involves a unified team of specialists in these core solutions to help ensure that every aspect of your financial life is attended to:
- Financial planning
- Investment management
- Tax planning and preparation
- Estate planning
- Insurance
Getting support from experienced advocates
With our approach, you get a hand-picked wealth advisor who is in a distinct position to function as the “field captain” for your other professional contacts. This may include:
- Collaborating closely with an attorney so that your financial interests are represented during asset division negotiations
- Coordinating with a tax advisor to effectively manage the transition from filing jointly as a married couple to filing a single return
- Meeting with an insurance representative to discuss the continuation or adaptation of appropriate coverage
- Working with a business valuation consultant to protect your interests when a family business is being sold or divided
Having an advisor helm multiple areas involved in the process can relieve your stress, allowing you to focus on matters that no one else can manage such as relationships with children or other family members, self-care, and similar concerns.
Empowering yourself
As you go through this guide, you’ll get a broader view of the complex financial considerations needed for dealing with divorce. You don’t have to make decisions on your own. Your power lies in choosing to get help, so you won’t get derailed from achieving your goals.
Glossary
- Alimony: Financial support that one spouse is ordered to pay to the other during or after a divorce.
- Asset Division: The process of distributing property and financial assets between spouses during a divorce.
- Child Support: Court-ordered payments made by one parent to the other for the financial support of their children.
- Community Property: A legal concept in some states where all property acquired during the marriage is considered jointly owned by both spouses and is divided equally upon divorce.
- Equitable Distribution: A legal principle used in many states where marital property is divided fairly, but not necessarily equally, based on various factors such as the length of the marriage and each spouse’s financial situation.
- Financial Disclosure: The process of providing a complete and accurate account of one’s financial situation, including income, expenses, assets, and debts, during divorce proceedings.
- Pre-nuptial Agreement: A contract entered into by a couple before marriage that outlines the ownership of their respective assets and how they will be divided in the event of a divorce.
- QDRO (Qualified Domestic Relations Order): A legal order that allows a retirement plan to pay benefits to a spouse, former spouse, child, or other dependent as part of a divorce settlement.
Pre-Divorce
The roadmap to achieving Economic Freedom through divorce begins before the legal proceedings. Preparation is key in laying the groundwork for reaching desired outcomes.
Assembling your team of advocates
- Attorney: Your attorney’s focus is on getting you legally divorced. Rely on them for advice that will help protect you and any minor children, such as on appropriate laws, legal terms, documents, and filings. Keep in mind that their expertise is not in giving financial advice. Mercer Advisors can partner with them to help you achieve financial outcomes that are right for you.
- Financial advisor: An advisor can be your financial champion and help both you and your attorney understand the short- and long-term financial impacts of potential legal settlements. In addition to getting an objective point of view on your financial matters, you’ll receive guidance on creating a financial plan that includes:
- Organizing your part of the marital finances to get a clear view of your current standing
- Assessing your short-term income needs
- Modeling potential financial outcomes after the divorce with variables that affect income such as inflation and investment return rate
- Outlining tax implications of proposed financial decisions
- Identifying long-term goals such as retirement, children’s education, and legacy wishes
- Creating a plan that can help position you for financial security in both the short- and long-term
- Collaborating with other professionals who specialize in taxes, estate planning, insurance, and more, to help ensure your full financial picture is integrated
Getting familiar with your full marital financial picture
Understanding how your assets are allocated and the laws of your state are crucial for determining asset division post-divorce.
- Gathering information on your shared assets as well as shared liabilities
- Determining which accounts are in your spouse’s name only and not yours
- Considering your state’s laws regarding divorce and, if applicable, a pre-nuptial agreement
Understanding costs involved in the divorce process
Beyond the basic financial outcomes of divorce, such as transitioning from a two-income to a one-income household and negotiating asset division, there may be unexpected financial challenges in the divorce process. Researching your options can help you prepare with adequate financial resources.
- Attorney and legal fees
- Advisory fees
- Tax implications – both in the near term and well into the future
During Divorce
Staying on track with a plan and adjusting when needed will help you stay in control of your financial future. It’s important to make educated decisions and have a smart strategy.
Anticipating financial needs for maintaining your lifestyle
- Expenses: Determining which expenses are necessary or non-negotiable, separate from what’s nice to have.
- Child support and/or alimony: Your attorney is important for protecting your legal rights in this area especially if, for example, a breadwinning spouse is trying to take advantage. Your financial advisor can provide calculations to help you advocate for the amount you need to support your family’s lifestyle.
Considering the tax implications of decisions
Every asset should be carefully analyzed for current and future tax ramifications. These types of financial details could easily get lost in the multitude of actions being taken to arrive at a settlement. At a glance, asset division may seem equitable. However, when you consider how the assets could be impacted by federal and state taxes, as well as going from joint to single tax filings, the split may shift in one person’s favor.
For instance, a pre-tax retirement account will not have the same value when considering post-tax distributions. In addition, the post-tax income could have a high marginal tax rate that affects future value. Similarly, we would look at current and future valuations of assets such as real estate or business equity. Our analysis and advice could potentially save a client hundreds of thousands of economic value in a split. At the same time, it could save money on an attorney’s fees by providing them with the numbers they need for negotiation.
Setting aside emotions to avoid making unfavorable decisions
You may have emotional or sentimental ties to particular assets. For instance, you may feel you need to stay in the marital home because the kids grew up there. Anticipate that you could have these types of attachments and identify them without making any quick decisions. A financial advisor can help you analyze what items you should or shouldn’t keep for your long-term financial well-being.
Lean on your team of professionals to function as thought and strategy partners for considering practical “what if” scenarios through financial modeling, investment programs, tax strategies, and more. Making informed decisions with objective views can curtail potential long-term financial damage from emotion-based choices.
Post-Divorce
Once you’ve completed the legal proceedings, there may be more adjustments or decisions to make. Don’t overlook important considerations for maintaining your financial well-being.
Preparing for short-term or day-to-day income
- Will any alimony or child support you’re receiving be enough to support your lifestyle?
- Will you need to go back to work?
- If you retained the marital home, have you anticipated costs of upkeep?
This is a good time to consult with your financial advisor. As part of the financial planning process, we can create a document that illustrates detailed cash flow expectations to help you feel confident you can be financially successful.
Modifying your account information to maintain privacy
- Beneficiary designations: The beneficiaries that are named on designation forms such as retirement accounts, life insurance policies, and pay-on-death accounts will receive the assets. Therefore, if you keep your former spouse or their family members named on these forms, they may be entitled to receive these assets, even after a finalized divorce.
- Digital assets: Remember to update digital accounts you may share with your former spouse, or that they could access, such as user IDs and passwords if you want to have privacy. You might also need to update legacy contacts added to accounts or make your wishes known in your will or living trust for who can manage your accounts after you pass. If you don’t want your former spouse to view your social media accounts, consider adjusting your privacy settings as well.
Planning for long-term health and wealth
- Health insurance: If you were on your spouse’s plan and need to find your own health care plan for covering expenses, you’ll likely either need to secure it through work or the marketplace.
- Estate planning: If you made an estate plan as a couple, be sure to update it. Following a divorce it’s important for each person to have their own plan that includes essential documents, such as powers of attorney. If you didn’t have an estate plan before, this is a good time to create one.
- Long-term care insurance: If you don’t have a long-term care policy for yourself, consider whether you might need one. It can provide benefits for expenses associated with care if you can no longer independently perform routine activities such as getting out of bed, dressing, bathing, eating, and using the restroom. This care typically falls outside the parameters of standard health insurance coverage.
Taking Next Steps
While all of this information provides general guidance, it doesn’t capture every financial matter you need to consider for going the divorce process. However, it does demonstrate how a financial advisor who specializes in helping guide you through decisions can advocate for your financial future and relieve the burden of stress related to your divorce. It’s important to keep from getting derailed on your road to Economic Freedom.
When you choose to collaborate with us at Mercer Advisors, you get financial advice on your divorce proceedings as well as reassurance that your long-term financial health will be looked after from multiple angles.
- A unified in-house team: During divorce it’s important that all areas of your financial life are connected together and coordinated by a team of specialists. Having a unified approach is key to long-term success.
- A hand-picked advisor: An advisor can help give you the advantage for obtaining the outcome you desire. They are experienced advocates who are familiar with all the nuances of financial challenges before, during, and after divorce.
- An institutional-grade portfolio: A team of investing professionals can create a diversified and cost-effective strategy for helping you build wealth and protecting your financial independence and security for years to come. Especially when divorce can potentially cut your assets in half.
- An independent, national fiduciary: As an independent, SEC-registered investment advisor (RIA), we are obligated to always operate in your best interest and can be an objective third-party in your divorce. Because we are fee-based not commission-based, we are not focused on selling you services or products.
Contact us today to schedule an introductory meeting and learn more about how we can help you take control and stay on track as you create your new financial future.
FAQs: Divorce Financial Planning
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A CDFA® is a financial advisor with specialized training in the financial aspects of divorce, including asset division, tax implications, and long-term financial planning. At Mercer Advisors, CDFA® advisors provide detailed guidance to help individuals navigate complex financial decisions during this major transition.
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Economic Freedom™ refers to achieving financial independence and security after divorce through proper planning and strategic decision-making. It means having the resources and plan in place to support your lifestyle, reach your goals, and feel confident in your financial future.
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Compile information on all shared assets (retirement accounts, real estate, investments, bank accounts) and shared liabilities (mortgages, credit cards, loans). Include accounts in your spouse’s name only and gather copies of your pre-nuptial agreement, if applicable, and documentation of your state’s divorce laws.
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A QDRO is a legal document that allows retirement assets to be divided between spouses without triggering early withdrawal penalties. Your financial advisor and attorney can work together to structure these properly to help you receive your entitled share of retirement accounts tax-efficiently.
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Yes, ideally — pre-divorce financial support is crucial for helping achieve your desired outcomes while reducing workload, worry, and potential risks. Working with an advisor before legal proceedings helps you understand the financial implications of decisions, organize your marital finances, and create a strategy that protects your interests.
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Don’t make this decision based on emotion or sentiment alone — analyze whether keeping the home makes financial sense long-term. Consider upkeep costs, whether one income can support the mortgage and expenses, and how keeping the home affects the overall asset division and your retirement goals.
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Not without analyzing tax implications — assets that appear equal may have very different after-tax values. For example, a pre-tax retirement account worth $500,000 will be worth significantly less after taxes than $500,000 in cash, which could shift the split heavily in your spouse’s favor.
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Yes — beneficiaries named on retirement accounts, life insurance policies, and pay-on-death accounts will receive those assets regardless of your divorce decree. If you don’t update these forms, your ex-spouse or their family members may be entitled to receive assets even after your divorce is finalized.
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Mercer Advisors provides a hand-picked wealth advisor who functions as the “field captain” for your professional team. Your advisor collaborates with your attorney, tax advisor, insurance representative, and business valuation consultant to help ensure all aspects of your financial life are attended to.
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You can secure coverage either through your employer’s plan or through the healthcare marketplace. Your financial advisor can help you budget for these costs and understand how health insurance expenses affect your cash flow planning.
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Mercer Advisors provides tax planning as part of their unified team approach — tax specialists analyze both near-term and long-term tax ramifications of every asset and decision. This includes evaluating retirement accounts, real estate, business equity, and the shift from joint to single tax filings.
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Contact Mercer Advisors to schedule an introductory meeting — even if you’re already through the divorce process, they can help you achieve your personal financial objectives. They’ll create a financial plan that includes cash flow management, investment strategy, estate planning updates, and long-term wealth building.
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Consider hiring both — your attorney focuses on the legal aspects and protecting your rights, while your financial advisor analyzes the financial implications of potential settlements. They can work together as your team, with the advisor helping both you and your attorney understand short- and long-term financial impacts of legal decisions.
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Prioritize assets that provide the best after-tax value and align with your long-term financial goals rather than emotional attachments. Your advisor can model different scenarios to show which combination of assets (retirement accounts, real estate, investments, business equity) positions you best for financial security.
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It depends on the tax implications — pre-tax retirement accounts will be taxed at your ordinary income rate when withdrawn, while cash and taxable investment accounts may offer more flexibility. Your advisor analyzes current and future tax ramifications to determine which assets may provide the most economic value for your situation.
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A unified team approach helps ensure all areas of your financial life are connected and coordinated. Mercer Advisors provides specialists in financial planning, investment management, tax planning, estate planning, and insurance working together rather than having disconnected professionals who may not communicate.
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