First, make sure the two of you are on the same page about finances before getting married. As part of this conversation, you both should disclose if you have assets or debts you’re bringing into the marriage. More than half of married couples report carrying debt into the relationship1. If there are substantial assets or debts, you may want to consider a pre-nuptial agreement to specify who is responsible.
Also discuss how you both want to manage finances going forward. Do you want to combine your assets? Open/use a joint bank account and credit cards? Or do you want to keep your finances separate? There is no right answer, but you should agree on how intertwined your finances will be.
Once you start the dialogue about money, it’s important to keep that going. There will be many financial issues you both will face (for example, helping aging parents, having kids, relocating for a new job, saving for retirement) and having an open line of communication is key to a successful marriage.
Congratulations! First, review your health insurance plan to make sure you understand what maternity benefits are covered and what your out-of-pocket costs will be. Review your company’s family leave policy to determine how much of your time will be covered and for how long. Next, talk with your partner about who will take care of the baby and coordinate any maternity/paternity leave.
Draft up a new post-baby budget including all related expenses you can think of (like childcare, baby equipment, diapers, clothing, etc.). Estimates are okay; you want to get a sense of what your cash flow will look like. With your partner, compare this new budget to your current one and make adjustments as needed.
Education costs continue to accelerate, so it’s never too early to start saving for your child’s education, whether it’s through a 529 plan, custodial account or a savings account. Make sure to update your estate plans as well, adding potential guardians for your child and updating beneficiaries information for your life and disability insurance policies.
Every family needs a budget, but a budget is crucial when one of you decides to forgo a paycheck. While you may need to cut costs and make sacrifices, there are two things you shouldn’t stop doing: paying off debt and saving for retirement.
Also, life insurance coverage is essential for both of you, whether you’re working or not. Many people wrongly assume that stay at home parents don’t need life insurance because they no longer have a salary. But if the working spouse dies, it’s likely that the other spouse will need to start working and someone else will need to take care of the children. Life insurance can provide that critical support in times of need. Same goes for disability insurance; the working spouse should get coverage as it can provide financial stability with unexpected situations, like an injury or serious illness. It also makes sense to set up an account to cover emergencies; generally speaking, you want to have enough money to cover three months of living expenses.
These can be tough conversations to have with your parents. One way you could start a conversation with your parents would be to bring up your own estate planning needs for your family. You can also bring in a trusted third party, like the family financial advisor or a close friend of your parents, to help you broach the topic with your parents.
Here are some questions you can ask:
Family meetings might also serve as a good forum for having discussions about your parents’ estate planning needs. Read more about family meetings here.
Kudos to you for thinking ahead! The data supports your instincts around retirement planning:
So what can you do?
First and foremost, have the conversation. 18% of parents have never talked to their kids about finances5 and the silence can turn money into a forbidden topic. Talking to your kids about money can help instill good financial habits that can last a lifetime.
Financial conversations with your children should include your family’s values on the best way to use money. Is saving important to you?
Share an example of how you saved to pay for a first car and how you felt when you got the keys. If you strive to live on a budget and not carry debt, talk about how living within your means helps you worry less. Big on philanthropy?
Discuss why certain causes are meaningful to you and how the money you give impacts the world and other people. Even if you don’t share actual dollar amounts, they will understand the decisions you made and the thoughtful consideration you give to how to handle your finances. Read about six ways you can teach your daughters about money.
Losing your spouse is an emotionally difficult time that can make managing financial tasks feel almost impossible. Ask for help if you can, whether it’s from a family member, close friend or your advisor.
Here are some initial steps to consider:
Divorce can be emotionally draining and painful. While dealing with finances might be the last thing you want to do, it’s important to take steps to prepare and protect yourself.
Here are some initial steps to consider.
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By 2020, women are projected to control $72.1 trillion globally.*
Nearly two-thirds of American women are breadwinners or co-breadwinners.**
95% of women will be their family's primary financial decision maker during their lifetime.***
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*By 2020, women will control $72.1 trillion globally.
(source: Money.com, “Women’s Wealth Growing Faster Than Men’s”, 2016)
** Nearly two-thirds (62.8%) of American women are breadwinners or co-breadwinners.
(source: The Shriver Special Report, “A Woman’s Nation Changes Everything,” 2009)
***95% of women will be their family’s primary financial decision maker during their lifetime.
(source: Family Wealth Advisors Council, “Women of Wealth”, 2011)
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